Sagittarius is one of the most generous and caring of the astrological signs. It makes them a great friend and romantic partner. But Sagittarius, you often put others before yourself, a habit that is very difficult to break away from. Happiness for the people that you love is happiness for yourself, but it always seems to come at a personal cost.

One of my favorite bits of advice about unwanted traits or perceived weaknesses is to “hand your feelings a shovel.” Instead of resisting your people-pleasing tendencies, put them to work. Let that knee-jerk reaction to please and plan and treat others get you on the plane.

Want to surprise your Mom with the ultimate birthday gift? Book a trip for you to go on together. Interested in trying out a new winter sport like skiing or snowboarding? Volunteer to be the “project manager” for a group trip with friends, and create an itinerary for a weekend away in Tahoe. Craving a good deep dish pizza? Plan a romantic weekend getaway to Chicago with your partner.

When you combine your interest in travel with your people-pleasing tendencies, it can get you pretty far.